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As a life coach, I often hear people say they lack motivation ? in fact Wholesale John Kelly Jersey , the ?motivation discussion? is almost a ritual with my new clients. You really want something, in fact you almost need it, but you just don?t have the drive to get to it. As a result, you blame yourself; you get stuck in your disappointment, your guilt Wholesale John Franklin-Myers Jersey , or your frustration ? further and further away from your goal.
But why are we not always driven enough to meet our objectives in the first place? Is it that we are not sufficiently determined? Or maybe we are not tough and strong enough?

The way I see things, motivation is akin to the sap that runs in the tree: it keeps the tree alive ? in fact, it?s essential to it ? but it?s useless if the tree (our objective) is rooted in poor, unhealthy grounds. It?s not our motivation that makes the objective real, it?s the other way around: when our goals are healthy Wholesale Brian Allen Jersey , the drive to take action flows naturally. When our goals are unhealthy, we have to push ourselves all along the path to ?success? ? and we don?t even feel like celebrating at the end (when we do get there).

So what is an ?unhealthy? objective? It?s an objective we hold for the wrong reasons, or with the wrong attitude: it?s rooted